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Building Relationships: Social Support for Isolated NDIS Participants

Last updated: May 2026

The Hidden Crisis: Social Isolation Among NDIS Participants

More than 1 in 4 Australians with disability report feeling lonely most or all of the time. For NDIS participants, the rate is significantly higher.

 

Social isolation is not merely an emotional problem. It is a health crisis. Research published in the Australian Journal of General Practice shows that chronic loneliness increases mortality risk by 26%—comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes daily.

For people with disability, isolation often begins early. Limited accessible transport, communication barriers, physical inaccessibility, and social stigma create compounding obstacles to ordinary social participation. A young adult with a mobility disability may go weeks without leaving home. A participant with psychosocial disability may avoid social situations entirely due to anxiety. An older participant with acquired brain injury may lose pre-existing friendships after the injury changes their personality or communication style.

 

According to the NDIS Participant Outcomes Report 2024, only 42% of participants feel they have adequate social supports. The remaining 58% want more connection but cannot access it through their current plans.

This guide explores how NDIS participants can build meaningful relationships, access funded social supports, and overcome isolation through practical, person-centred strategies.

What Social Supports Does the NDIS Fund?

The NDIS recognises social and community participation as a core outcome. Funding is available across several categories specifically designed to help participants build relationships and engage with their communities.

Core Supports – Social and Community Participation

This flexible budget subcategory funds assistance to participate in social, recreational, or community activities. Examples include:

  • Support workers accompanying participants to social events
  • Transport to and from community activities
  • Assistance to join clubs, classes, or hobby groups
  • Support to attend religious or cultural gatherings

Capacity Building Supports – Increased Social and Community Participation

This fixed budget category focuses on developing skills to participate more independently. Examples include:

  • Social skills training and communication coaching
  • Confidence building for group settings
  • Learning to use public transport
  • Developing friendships and relationship skills

Capacity Building Supports – Improved Relationships

This category funds behaviour support and relationship skill development, particularly for participants who experience challenges with social interaction due to their disability.

According to NDIS Practice Standard 6 (Community Participation and Social Inclusion), funded supports must be evidence-based, person-centred, and focused on outcomes meaningful to the participant.

How to Access Social Supports in Your NDIS Plan

Accessing social supports requires clear articulation of your goals during the planning process.

Step 1: Identify your social goals

Before meeting with your NDIS planner or Local Area Coordinator (LAC), spend time reflecting. Ask yourself:

  • What activities bring me joy or curiosity?
  • Who do I currently spend time with?
  • What barriers stop me from socialising?
  • What would a good social week look like for me?

Step 2: Articulate goals in NDIS language

Goals should be specific, measurable, and disability-related. Examples:

  • “I want to attend a community art class once a week with support to build my confidence in group settings.”
  • “I want to learn to use public transport so I can visit my sister independently twice a month.”
  • “I want to join a walking group and develop two new friendships within 12 months.”

Step 3: Request specific funding

Ask directly for:

  • Core Supports budget for “Assistance with Social and Community Participation”
  • Capacity Building funding for “Increased Social and Community Participation”
  • Support coordination to connect you with appropriate providers

Step 4: Choose the right provider

Not all registered NDIS providers offer genuine social support. Look for providers who:

  • Ask about your interests, not just your diagnosis
  • Offer flexible scheduling (evenings and weekends)
  • Have staff trained in social connection, not just personal care
  • Can provide both 1:1 and group support options

A1 Healthcare Solutions can help participants access and implement social supports. Call 1300 366 453 to speak with a specialist.

Types of Social Supports Available

Social supports exist on a spectrum from highly structured to completely open-ended. The right type depends on your goals, comfort level, and disability-related needs.

1:1 Supported Social Outings

A support worker accompanies you to an activity of your choice. This is ideal for participants who need hands-on assistance or feel anxious in groups.

Examples:

  • Coffee at a local café
  • Visiting a museum or gallery
  • Attending a movie or live performance
  • Going to the library or bookshop
  • Walking in a park or botanical garden

Typical funding: Core Supports – Assistance with Social and Community Participation

Group Social Activities

Structured group activities led by a provider, often with other NDIS participants. These provide built-in social opportunities with facilitation.

Examples:

  • Art or craft classes
  • Cooking groups
  • Walking or exercise groups
  • Board game or trivia afternoons
  • Bowling or ten-pin bowling groups

Typical funding: Core Supports or Capacity Building – Increased Social and Community Participation

Skill-Building Programs

Structured courses or programs focused on developing social skills, confidence, and relationship capacity.

Examples:

  • Social communication training
  • Friendship skills groups
  • Dating and relationship education
  • Assertiveness and boundary setting

Typical funding: Capacity Building – Improved Relationships or Increased Social and Community Participation

Peer Support and Mentoring

Connection with another person with disability who has lived experience. Peer support is uniquely valuable because it reduces the power differential common in support relationships.

Examples:

  • Peer mentoring (1:1)
  • Peer support groups
  • Lived experience leadership programs
  • Online peer communities

Typical funding: Capacity Building supports (some peer programs are free through community organisations)

Community Access Without Support

For participants with lower support needs, the NDIS may fund transport or equipment that enables independent community participation.

Examples:

  • Taxi or rideshare funding
  • Public transport training
  • Assistive technology for communication
  • Modified vehicles or driving lessons

Typical funding: Core Supports – Transport or Capital Supports – Assistive Technology

Overcoming Common Barriers to Social Participation

Participants and families frequently report the same barriers. Here is how to address each.

Barrier: No transport

Solution: Request Transport funding in your Core Supports budget. The NDIS funds transport for participants who cannot use public transport due to their disability. This can include taxis, rideshare, or support workers driving their own vehicles.

According to NDIS transport guidelines, participants with significant mobility, psychosocial, or cognitive disabilities are eligible for transport funding even for short local trips.

Barrier: Social anxiety or fear of judgment

Solution: Start with 1:1 support in low-pressure settings. A support worker can accompany you to quiet cafes, libraries, or parks during off-peak hours. Gradually build to small groups. Many participants benefit from social skills coaching funded through Capacity Building.

Barrier: Communication difficulties

Solution: Request assistive technology for communication. This includes speech-generating devices, communication apps, or funding for an Auslan interpreter. Support workers trained in augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) can facilitate social interactions.

Barrier: Physical inaccessibility

Solution: Use your support worker to research accessible venues before outings. The NDIS can also fund venue modifications in limited circumstances, but typically the solution is choosing accessible venues rather than modifying inaccessible ones.

Barrier: Lack of local options in regional areas

Solution: Virtual social options have expanded dramatically. Online art classes, gaming groups, book clubs, and peer support meetings are all NDIS-fundable when in-person options are unavailable. Some participants combine a support worker for facilitation with online group participation.

Building Friendships: Beyond the Support Worker Relationship

A common concern among participants and families is whether funded supports create authentic friendships. The distinction matters.

A support worker is a paid professional. They are not a friend, even when the relationship is warm and friendly. Boundaries protect both parties.

Genuine friendships are unpaid, mutual, and chosen. They develop organically through shared activities, not through service agreements.

How the NDIS helps build genuine friendships:

  • Funding to attend community activities where friendships can form naturally
  • Social skills training to build confidence for peer relationships
  • Peer support programs connecting you with other participants
  • Transport to visit existing friends or family

According to the NDIS Participant Outcomes Framework, the goal of social supports is not to replace friendships with paid staff but to create conditions where unpaid friendships can flourish.

Example: A support worker takes you to a weekly board game group. After several weeks, you begin chatting with another group member. You exchange numbers. Eventually, you meet for coffee without your support worker. That is success.

Social Supports for Specific Disability Groups

Different disabilities create different social barriers. Effective support is disability-responsive, not one-size-fits-all.

Psychosocial Disability

Common barriers: Social anxiety, low motivation, fear of judgment, difficulty reading social cues

Effective supports:

  • Gradual exposure starting with short, low-pressure outings
  • Social skills training focused on conversation and cue recognition
  • Peer support from others with lived experience
  • Support workers trained in mental health recovery principles
  • Flexible scheduling (cancelling without penalty during difficult days)

Intellectual Disability

Common barriers: Difficulty understanding abstract social concepts, vulnerability to exploitation, limited safety awareness

Effective supports:

  • Concrete, visual social stories about different situations
  • Supported decision-making about social boundaries
  • Structured group activities with clear rules and supervision
  • Relationship and sexuality education tailored to cognitive level

Physical Disability

Common barriers: Venue inaccessibility, fatigue, pain, transport limitations

Effective supports:

  • Accessible venue research and booking
  • Pacing and rest breaks built into outings
  • Transport funding including wheelchair-accessible vehicles
  • Support workers trained in manual handling and fatigue management

Acquired Brain Injury (ABI)

Common barriers: Personality changes after injury, loss of pre-injury friendships, cognitive fatigue, impulsivity or disinhibition

Effective supports:

  • Rebuilding social skills that changed after injury
  • Connecting with ABI-specific peer support groups
  • Structured outings with predictable timelines
  • Support workers trained in brain injury behaviour management

Autism Spectrum Disorder

Common barriers: Sensory overload, difficulty with unwritten social rules, preference for routine, anxiety about novel situations

Effective supports:

  • Sensory-friendly venues and times (quiet hours)
  • Clear, written information about what to expect
  • Gradual introduction to new settings
  • Social scripts and role-play practice
  • Support workers trained in neurodiversity-affirming approaches

Success Story: From Isolation to Community Connection

Names and identifying details changed for privacy.

Michael is a 34-year-old participant with psychosocial disability and social anxiety. Before accessing NDIS social supports, he had not left his apartment for social purposes in 18 months. He communicated with his mother by phone and saw no one else.

Michael’s NDIS plan included 12 hours of social and community participation funding per week. He worked with a support coordinator from A1 Healthcare Solutions to design a gradual approach.

Month 1: A support worker visited Michael at home. They watched movies together and talked. No pressure to go outside.

Month 2: Support worker and Michael walked to the end of the driveway together. Then around the block. Then to a quiet café 10 minutes away for 15 minutes.

Month 3: Michael attended a small peer support group for men with psychosocial disability. He sat silently for the first two sessions. On the third session, he spoke.

Month 6: Michael joined a weekly board game group. He now attends independently (support worker drops him off). He has exchanged numbers with two group members.

Month 12: Michael attended a birthday dinner for a friend from the board game group. It was the first social event he had attended voluntarily in over two years.

According to Michael’s support coordinator: “The funding gave Michael the scaffolding, but he built the relationships himself. That is what social supports should do—create conditions for genuine connection, not manufacture it.”

Frequently Asked Questions

Can NDIS fund holidays or vacations?

Yes, but only the disability-related support costs, not travel, accommodation, or spending money. A support worker can accompany you on holiday and be paid for their time.

Can NDIS fund dating or intimate relationships?

The NDIS does not fund dating services or sex work. However, it can fund relationship skills training, supported decision-making about relationships, and transport to social events where dating might occur.

Can I use NDIS funding to join a gym or sports club?

Yes, including the membership fees if they are directly related to your disability goals. A support worker can accompany you for assistance.

What if I try a social activity and don’t like it?

That is fine. The NDIS expects trial and error. Work with your provider to try different activities until you find what works.

Can NDIS fund online social activities?

Yes. Virtual art classes, gaming groups, and peer support meetings are all fundable, particularly for participants in regional areas.

How much social funding should I request?

There is no standard amount. Some participants need 2-4 hours weekly. Others need 15-20 hours. Base your request on your goals and current isolation level. Your support coordinator can help you justify the amount during planning.

Taking the Next Step: Building Your Social Life

Social isolation is not inevitable. With the right NDIS funding, the right provider, and a gradual, person-centred approach, participants can build meaningful relationships and genuine community connection.

For NDIS participants:

  • Discuss social goals in your next plan review
  • Request specific social participation funding
  • Choose a provider who listens to your interests
  • Start small and build gradually

For families and carers:

  • Encourage without pressuring
  • Celebrate small steps
  • Remember that your loved one’s social life may look different from yours—and that is okay

For providers and support coordinators:

  • Genuine relationships take time. Do not rush.
  • Train staff in social facilitation, not just personal care
  • Build relationships with community venues and groups

A1 Healthcare Solutions: Your Partner in Social Connection

At A1 Healthcare Solutions, we believe that relationships are the foundation of a good life. Social isolation is not a permanent state—it is a problem with a solution.

Our social support services include:

  • NDIS plan reviews to secure social participation funding
  • Support coordination to connect you with the right providers
  • Direct 1:1 and group social support programs
  • Peer mentoring and community connection
  • Transport and accessible venue coordination

We work with participants across all disability types, from those taking their first step outside in years to those seeking specific skill development for deeper relationships.

Contact A1 Healthcare Solutions:

📞 Call 1300 366 453 to speak with a disability support specialist

Visit a1healthcaresolutions.com.au to learn more about our social and community participation services